Taking a little time away from your little ones does not make you a bad parent. It actually can be one of the best things you do for your family.
So many mums tell me they feel guilty even thinking about booking a babysitter. There’s this idea that we should be able to do everything ourselves. Work, home, cooking, bedtime routines, life admin… all of it. It’s a lot for anyone!
So many mums tell me they feel guilty even thinking about booking a babysitter. There’s this idea that we should be able to do everything ourselves. Work, home, cooking, bedtime routines, life admin… all of it. It’s a lot for anyone!
As a mum of three myself, I completely understand how easy it is to put yourself at the bottom of the list. But sometimes all we really need is just a small break.
Not necessarily a big night out. No, not at all. More like a quiet lunch with a friend, a yoga class, a hair appointment, or even just a walk along the beach. How nice?
And the funny thing is, when parents come home after a bit of time for themselves, they usually say the same thing.That they feel lighter, more patient, and more present. That little reset can make such a difference. So why do we not do it more often?
Your little ones are also completely fine while you’re gone. In fact, many of them love the novelty of a babysitter. New games, a different voice reading bedtime stories, and someone else to show their favourite toy to.
Parenting is a big job, huge, and it was never meant to be done without support.
So if you’ve been thinking about taking a bit of time for yourself, even if it’s just a couple of hours during the day, please know that it’s completely okay to do that. Sometimes a small reset can make everyone in the house a little happier.
And if a babysitter for a few hours here and there would make life a little easier, we’re always here to help when you need us.
Orly xx
